When the phone rings and you can’t answer it, most new callers won’t leave a message. They’ll ring the next business on the list. A telephone answering service makes sure a real person picks up in your business’s name whenever you can’t: when you’re with a client, on a job, in a meeting or, just as important, on holiday.

I have relied on a telephone answering service since 2011. It answers Get Ahead’s own number, and in 15 years we have never missed a call. When clients started asking how we did it, offering them the same service was an easy decision. In this guide I’ll explain how a telephone answering service works, what it costs, how it compares with voicemail and AI, and how to tell whether your business needs one.

Perhaps one of these sounds familiar. “I can’t take calls when I’m on site, and by the time I ring back they’ve booked someone else.” Or: “I haven’t had a proper week off in years, because I’m the only one who answers the phone.”

What is a telephone answering service?

A telephone answering service is a team that answers your business calls for you, using your business name, and passes each message on. You divert your calls to them when you can’t answer, and they pick up as if they were part of your business.

You may also see it called a call handling or message taking service, or outsourced telephone answering. It sits between voicemail, which records a message and leaves the caller waiting, and a receptionist, whom you employ to sit in your office. It suits owner-led businesses that are too busy to answer every call but too small to employ someone to do it: sole traders, tradespeople, consultants, professional services firms and small practices.

How does a telephone answering service work?

You divert your line to the answering team, they answer with a greeting you have agreed, and they send you each message by email or text. Setting it up can often be done the same day. At Get Ahead it works like this.

1. Talk to your Regional Director

Tell them what you need cover for, when and for how long: every afternoon, evenings and weekends, a busy season, or a fortnight in August. We work with two specialist UK call answering partners, and your Regional Director will match you to the one that fits your hours and your callers.

2. Tell us about your business

We agree how calls are answered, your opening hours, the questions callers most often ask, what counts as urgent and whether you want messages by email, text or both.

3. Divert your calls

Most landlines, mobiles and internet phone systems have a call divert setting. You switch it on, and your calls come to us. If your mobile is your business number, as it is for many sole traders and tradespeople, a mobile phone answering service works in exactly the same way.

4. We answer in your name

A trained call handler answers in your business name, takes the caller’s name, number and reason for calling, reassures them that you’ll be in touch, and passes the message on.

5. Switch back when you’re ready

Turn the diversion off and your calls come straight back to you.

Why go through Get Ahead rather than straight to an answering company? Because you get one point of contact who knows your business, the right service chosen for you rather than a price list to work through, and support that can grow beyond the phone. I chose our partners precisely because they are specialists: answering calls is all they do. We were already using them for our own phones, so I knew exactly what our clients would get.

What happens to calls outside office hours?

They can still be answered. If your customers ring early, late or at weekends, or out-of-hours calls are your main concern, we use a partner that specialises in out-of-hours cover, available up to 24 hours a day, seven days a week, depending on your specific needs. Callers reach a real person rather than a voicemail, and urgent calls can be passed on to you straight away if you want them to be.

If you only need daytime cover, calls outside your agreed hours can go to a personal message in your business name, and anything left is passed on first thing the next working day.

Whichever you choose, agree in advance what counts as urgent and who should be contacted, for example for a tradesperson’s emergency call-out.

What can a call handler do beyond taking a message?

More than most people expect. A good call handler doesn’t only write down a name and number. Depending on what you agree, they can:

  • answer common questions about your opening hours, services or prices
  • book appointments in your online booking system or calendar
  • find out who is calling and put the call through to you when you are free
  • pass urgent calls to you, or to someone you nominate, straight away
  • take orders and capture the details of new enquiries

Because Get Ahead is a network of more than 90 Virtual Experts, phone cover can sit alongside other support. A virtual assistant can follow up the enquiries, keep your diary in order or deal with the emails that build up while you’re busy, so the calls become work rather than a list of people to ring back.

That is what happened for the Leeds office of Sanderson Weatherall, the national estate agents. We set up telephone answering to handle calls and pass on messages, and alongside it an administration Virtual Expert who booked property viewings and checked prospective tenants were suitable. Within eight months her role had grown from one hour a week to a full day, and that gave the office the business case to employ someone permanently. You can read the case study here.

Should you use a telephone answering service when you go on holiday?

Yes, if your phone is how customers and new enquiries reach you. A recorded message saying you’re away until the 14th tells a new customer to try someone else, and tells an existing one to wait. A person who answers, takes the details and says when you’ll be back in touch keeps both.

It’s also better for you. A proper holiday is one where you don’t take work calls. You need time to recharge and to reconnect with yourself and the people you care about, and you can’t do that while checking your phone by the pool.

Headline Design & Print, a Guildford design and print business, uses our service in just this way. When staff are on holiday or off sick, they divert their line, each call is written up and emailed to the right person, and they switch it off again when the office is fully staffed. Their managing director, Mark Warner, puts it like this: “The service Get Ahead deliver allows me, as the director and sales front end, to take time out of the business safe in the knowledge my clients are able to communicate with us and are not going elsewhere.” You can read the case study here.

Holiday cover works in the same way as everyday cover, for a set period. Give your Regional Director your dates and tell them what counts as urgent, set your diversion before you leave, and come back to a clear list of who called and why rather than a full voicemail box. It’s worth doing for bank holidays and the Christmas closedown too, when many owner-led businesses close but their customers still call. Our [link: bank holiday guide] covers what else to think about when you close.

Telephone answering service, voicemail or AI: which should you choose?

It depends on how many calls you get and what your callers need. Voicemail costs nothing but loses callers. An AI answering tool is cheap and always on, but struggles when a call doesn’t fit its script. A person can deal with the unexpected.

 VoicemailAI call answeringTelephone answering serviceEmployed receptionist
Who answersA recordingSoftwareA trained person, in your business nameYour employee
Handles the unexpectedNoPartlyYesYes
Typical costFreeLow monthly feeA monthly fee plus a charge per callA salary plus employer costs
Holiday and sickness coverNot neededAlways onYesNeeds cover of its own
SuitsVery few callsHigh volumes of simple callsOwner-led businesses that can’t afford to miss a callBusy offices with constant calls

AI answering tools are improving quickly, and for some businesses they will be enough. For most of our clients, though, the calls that matter most are the ones that don’t fit a script: a worried customer, a complaint, an urgent job or a new client deciding whether to trust you.

How much does a telephone answering service cost in the UK?

Most UK services charge per call answered, per minute, or a monthly bundle that includes a set number of calls. Published 2026 price guides from UK providers put per-call charges at roughly 60p to £2.50 and monthly bundles from about £25 to several hundred pounds, with set-up fees of up to around £150. Out-of-hours cover usually costs more.

At Get Ahead we have a couple of models depending on your specific needs – you either pay a small monthly service fee plus a charge for each call answered, or block buy a number of minutes per month. There is no long-term contract, so you can use it for a few weeks over a holiday and stop when you are back. Your Regional Director will agree the cost with you before anything starts.

When you compare quotes, look at the whole cost: what counts as a call, any monthly fee, minimum term or set-up charge, and what your mobile network charges for diverted calls. Then set that against the work you lose when a new enquiry rings someone else.

How do you choose a telephone answering service for a small business?

Ask these six questions before you sign up. Good answers to all of them are a sign the service will work for a small business, not just a large one:

  • Who will answer my calls, and will it be the same people each time?
  • What hours do you cover, and what happens to calls outside them?
  • How quickly will I get each message, and how?
  • How do you handle urgent calls?
  • Is there a contract, minimum term, monthly fee or set-up charge?
  • Where are messages stored, and how do you look after my callers’ personal data?

The last question matters more than it used to. Every message holds a caller’s personal details, so your provider should handle them in line with UK data protection law; the Information Commissioner’s Office has more information on what that means. The call handlers we work with are trained, based in the UK and handle your callers’ details under UK data protection law.

Never miss the call that matters

A telephone answering service is a small cost that protects two valuable things: the first impression a caller gets of your business, and your own time away from the phone.

If you’d like your phones covered, for a holiday, the Christmas closedown or every day, talk to your local Regional Director, or ring us on 0330 223 7580. You’ll hear the service for yourself: it has answered that number for 15 years. We can often have your calls covered the same day.

Frequently asked questions

Can I use a telephone answering service just while I’m on holiday?

Yes. Many businesses use it only for holidays, bank holidays or the Christmas closedown. At Get Ahead you can use it just for holiday cover and switch it off when you’re back.

Will callers know they aren’t speaking to my own team?

Calls are answered in your business name, with a greeting you agree. To most callers, your business has simply answered the phone.

How do I divert my calls?

Most landlines, mobiles and internet phone systems have a call divert setting you can switch on and off. Your phone provider may charge for diverted calls, so it is worth checking. Your Regional Director will talk you through it.

Do you offer out-of-hours call answering?

Yes. We work with a partner that specialises in out-of-hours cover, so evening and weekend calls can be answered by a real person, up to 24 hours a day if you need it. Your Regional Director will match you to the right service.

Can I divert my mobile to a telephone answering service?

Yes. Mobiles have a call divert setting, usually under Phone or Call settings, and you can choose to divert every call or only those you do not answer. Check with your network whether diverted calls are charged.


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In previous pieces I have written about planning, accountability, and the gap between delivering a project and realising its benefits. In this one I want to step back and look at something that sits beneath all of those: the cost of not deciding, and the art of knowing which decisions actually matter.

No decision is a decision

One of the things I learned early in my career, managing complex supply chain programmes, is that a stalled project is never neutral. It always has a cost. The question is only whether that cost is visible.

When a project drifts, when scope discussions go unresolved, when the next step waits for a conversation that keeps being postponed, the business is not standing still. It is continuing to operate without the improvement the project was designed to deliver. Every week of delay is a week without the benefit.

That is the opportunity cost of an unfinished project. It is real, it compounds, and it is almost never quantified.

The morale cost is equally real

There is another cost that is harder to measure but just as damaging: what a stalled project does to the people involved in it.

I have seen this in my own career, and I see it regularly with growing businesses. A team that commits energy and effort to a change programme, and then watches it drift and stall, does not simply shrug and move on. They become more cautious. They are less willing to invest in the next project. The instinct that change is possible and worth attempting gets quietly eroded.

And the business owner or leader who sponsored the project carries the additional weight of a commitment not delivered. That weight accumulates across multiple stalled projects, and it is one of the most consistent sources of leadership fatigue in growing businesses.

Morale is not soft. In a smaller business, where the energy and belief of a small group of people is often the primary competitive advantage, morale is a genuinely strategic resource. Wasting it on projects that drift is a cost that deserves to be taken seriously.

Sometimes you have to keep moving

All of this points to a principle that is counterintuitive for many business owners: sometimes the worst option is to wait for more information or a better moment.

Projects stall most often not because the decisions are genuinely impossible, but because the people involved are not comfortable making them without certainty they will never have. They wait for the risk to reduce, for alignment to emerge naturally, for someone else to take the first step.

Meanwhile the cost of not deciding keeps accumulating.

There is a version of caution that is wisdom: taking the time to understand what you are deciding and what the consequences are. And there is a version of caution that is avoidance, dressed up as diligence. The skill is telling the difference, which is easier when you have an experienced outside perspective and harder when you are close to the project and carrying the pressure of it.

Not all decisions are equal

The other side of this is equally important: not every decision in a project is a decision that needs to be agonised over.

In my experience, most projects have a small number of genuinely critical decisions, the ones where the choice of direction will have a lasting, material impact on the outcome. And a much larger number of decisions that feel significant in the moment, generate extended discussion, and ultimately make very little difference to the result.

The skill of good project leadership, and of experienced external support, is distinguishing between the two. Knowing when to push for a decision because the cost of delay is real, and knowing when to make a pragmatic call and move on because the decision is less important than the momentum it is consuming.

Spending hours debating a choice that turns out to be marginal is itself a cost. The time and energy that goes into low-stakes decisions is time and energy that is not available for the decisions that genuinely matter.

The discipline of moving

What this adds up to is a case for a particular kind of project discipline: the discipline of keeping things moving, even when not everything is resolved.

That does not mean ignoring risk or making reckless decisions. It means having a clear sense of which risks are worth managing carefully and which ones are overstated. It means being willing to make a good enough decision now rather than waiting for a perfect one that may never arrive. And it means having someone in the project whose job includes recognising when delay is becoming more costly than the thing being delayed over.

In growing businesses, that discipline is hard to maintain from the inside. Everyone is close to the work. Everyone has a stake in the decisions. And the pressure of the day-to-day makes it easy to let project decisions wait for a better moment.

That better moment rarely comes on its own.

Making the cost visible

One of the most useful things an outside perspective brings to a stalled project is simply making the cost of the stall visible.

Not as a criticism, but as a practical question: what is this delay actually costing us? What would we have, if we had decided this three months ago? What will we not have, if we continue to wait?

When those questions get asked directly, the case for moving tends to become clearer. The risk of a decision that turns out to be slightly wrong usually looks smaller than the cost of not deciding at all.

The projects I have seen recover from difficult stalls almost always share a common turning point: a moment when someone named the cost of waiting, and the team chose to move.

If you have a project that has lost momentum, or a decision that has been sitting unresolved for longer than it should, I am always happy to think it through with you. Sometimes an outside perspective is all it takes to see a clear way forward.

Get Ahead’s team works across the full range of project support, from planning and coordination to delivery and benefits tracking.

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Making Change Work – A series discussing project management in growing businesses:

In this series I have written about the planning that gets skipped at the start, and the accountability that drifts once a project is underway. This time I want to focus on the end, or rather, what happens when a project does not quite get there, and what is lost when it does not.

The statistics are stark

The data on project outcomes is not reassuring. Research by the Project Management Institute found that only around 29% of projects are completed on time and within budget. The Standish CHAOS Report, which has tracked project outcomes for decades, consistently finds that fewer than a third of projects are considered fully successful.

A separate PwC study of more than 10,000 projects found that only 2.5% of organisations complete all of their projects successfully.

These figures are drawn largely from larger organisations with dedicated project management capability. The picture in smaller businesses, where projects tend to be less formally managed, is unlikely to be more encouraging.

Most projects, in most organisations, do not fully deliver what they set out to do.

Why projects stall in the final stretch

The halfway point of a project is where the energy peaks. The initial excitement is still present, some progress is visible, and the end feels close enough to motivate.

But the final third is harder. The interesting, creative work is largely done. What remains is often the detailed, painstaking work of implementation: testing, training, communication, process embedding, and the thousand small tasks that turn a project output into something the business can actually use.

This is also the point at which the business, having waited patiently for the project to deliver, starts to expect results. Pressure builds. People who have been borrowed from their day jobs want to return to them. Sponsors who have been funding the work want to see a return.

And so, more often than not, the project is declared done before it is finished. A system goes live without proper training. A new process is documented but not embedded. A change is announced but not followed through.

Finishing is not the same as succeeding

This is the distinction that project management theory calls benefits realisation, and it is the phase that most organisations handle least well.

A project is not successful because it was delivered on time and within budget. It is successful because the change it was designed to create actually happened, and the business is genuinely better as a result.

If a new CRM system goes live but the sales team does not adopt it, the project has not succeeded. If a new process is designed but not followed, the project has not succeeded. If a restructure is completed on paper but the working patterns and relationships do not change, the project has not succeeded.

Benefits realisation is the work of making sure the change actually lands. It is unglamorous, it is slow, and it requires sustained attention after the moment of launch when everyone’s focus has already moved on. Which is precisely why it so often does not happen.

Why this matters more in growing businesses

In a large organisation, a project team might stay in place for months after go-live to support adoption, manage issues, and track whether the intended benefits are being realised. There are often formal review points, benefit tracking mechanisms, and governance structures that persist beyond delivery.

In a growing business, the project team is usually the senior leadership team, plus whoever else could be spared. When the project is declared done, everyone returns to their day jobs immediately. The headspace that was devoted to the project disappears almost overnight.

And so the final 10% of the work, the embedding, the adoption, the measurement, gets quietly abandoned. The project is considered finished. The benefits are assumed rather than tracked. And six months later, when someone asks whether things have changed, the honest answer is: not as much as we expected.

Asking the question at the start

The most effective way to improve benefits realisation is to define what it looks like before the project begins.

What does success look like, specifically, 90 days after go-live? What behaviours will have changed? What metrics will have moved? Who is responsible for tracking that, and what happens if it is not happening?

These questions are uncomfortable to answer before the project has started, because the honest answer is often: we do not know yet. But the act of asking them forces a clarity about purpose that makes everything that follows more deliberate.

A project with a clear definition of the change it is trying to create is more likely to get to the end. And a project team that knows it will be asked to demonstrate benefits is more likely to plan for the work of realising them.

The question worth asking

Before the next project begins, it is worth asking a simple question: if we get to the end and declare this done, how will we know whether it actually worked?

If the answer is uncertain, that uncertainty is worth resolving before the project starts, not after it finishes.

The cost of a project that delivers without landing is not just the budget and the time. It is the opportunity cost of change that did not happen, and the organisational fatigue of going through the process of change without receiving its benefits.

That is an expensive outcome. And in most cases, it is a preventable one.

If you are planning a project and want to think through how you will know whether it has truly succeeded, or if you are partway through one and wondering whether the benefits are being properly tracked, I am always happy to have that conversation.

Get Ahead’s team works across the full range of project support, from planning and coordination to delivery and benefits tracking.

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The Operational Edge, Post 4 of 4

I did not set out to build a career in event management. I came from a corporate background in HR and performance, and event planning arrived through the side door: initially something I took on because it needed doing, and gradually something I became good at and sought out.

What I did not expect was how much the discipline of running complex events would teach me about business. Not about events specifically, but about the kind of operational and commercial thinking that underpins any well-run organisation.

This is the final post in a series built around that premise. Not as a neat argument constructed after the fact, but as something I have come to understand through the work itself.

The information timing insight

The most transferable thing event work taught me is deceptively simple: people cannot act on information before they are ready to act on it.

In an events context, this is practical and immediate. Send a delegate their travel details three months before the event and they will not know where to find them when they need them. Send them two weeks before and they will use them. The information is identical. The timing is what changes the outcome.

I apply the same thinking to how I communicate with clients. Not everything needs to be shared immediately. Some things are better held until the moment when they are actually useful. The discipline is knowing the difference, and resisting the temptation to communicate for the sake of it.

What joined-up support actually looks like

One of the things event work made concrete for me is what it means to bring different kinds of expertise together for a single outcome.

An event needs copy written. It needs a logo and a landing page and printed materials. It needs someone to manage registrations, liaise with the venue, brief the AV team, and be on-site when the day comes. None of those things requires the same person. All of them need to work together.

For a client without an internal marketing team, I might pull in three hours of a graphic designer’s time for the branding, write the copy myself, manage the registrations, and bring in additional support on the day. The client gets a complete service without employing anyone permanently. They pay for what they need, when they need it.

That is also, precisely, how Get Ahead works. The model was not new to me because I had already been living a version of it. What Get Ahead provides is the structure, the network, and the matching process that makes it work across a much wider range of business needs than events alone.

What reputation actually builds

My current event clients did not find me through advertising. They found me because someone they trusted had worked with me and recommended me. Several of them were delegates at events I ran for other clients, who subsequently asked me to run events for their own organisations.

Reputation in that sense is not something you manufacture. It is the cumulative result of doing the work carefully, repeatedly, and without making clients feel the effort behind it.

I think about that when I work with businesses through Get Ahead. The support I provide is not visible to their clients. It is not supposed to be. What is visible is the effect: a business owner who is calmer, better prepared, and more present than they would be if they were trying to carry everything themselves.

Why I do this work

I am sometimes asked what the connection is between a corporate HR career, years of running scientific conferences, and being a Regional Director for a business support network.

The honest answer is that they are all versions of the same thing. Understanding what a person or organisation needs to perform well. Building the conditions that make that possible. Getting out of the way when it is working.

The businesses I support through Get Ahead are run by people who are good at what they do. They do not need me to do it for them. They need the operational breathing room to do it better, and the confidence that comes from having the right support in the right place at the right time.

That is what this series has been about: not event management for its own sake, but what the discipline of running complex operations under pressure teaches you about running anything well.

If any of it has resonated, I would be glad to have a conversation. Not a pitch. Just a conversation about where your business is right now, and whether the kind of support I provide through Get Ahead could make a useful difference.


The event planning and debrief framework from Post 3 is available to download here:


The Operational Edge: Event Planning and Debrief Framework


About the Author

Read more about Suzanne here.


This series has explored why projects stall before they start, when planning gets skipped in the rush to act. But even when a project is well-planned, there is another failure mode that is just as common, and just as avoidable. It is the question of who, exactly, is responsible for making it happen.

The accountability assumption

In a small team, a lot goes unsaid. That is often a genuine strength. Growing businesses move quickly precisely because there is less bureaucracy, fewer sign-offs, and a higher degree of mutual trust and understanding between the people involved.

But that same informality creates a particular kind of risk in project work. When responsibilities are assumed rather than agreed, when everyone believes someone else has picked up a task, and when the shared understanding of priorities turns out not to be shared at all, projects begin to drift. And often nobody notices until the drift has become a delay.

This is not a problem that only affects large organisations with complex hierarchies. In many respects it is more acute in smaller businesses, precisely because there are fewer people, roles are less defined, and the assumption of alignment runs deeper.

We’re a small team, we know what we’re doing

One of the most common things I hear at the start of a project in a growing business is some version of: we do not need a lot of process, we all know each other, we communicate well.

And it is usually true, as a general description of how the business operates day to day.

But a project is not day-to-day operations. It is a temporary, specific piece of work with its own timeline, its own dependencies, and its own demands on people who are already busy doing other things. The informal communication that keeps the business running smoothly is not the same as the structured accountability that keeps a project on track.

When those two things get confused, the results are predictable. Tasks sit in the gap between people, each assuming the other has picked them up. Decisions that need to be made wait for a conversation that never quite happens. Priorities shift without the project team being told, because nobody formally owns the communication.

The priority problem

There is a related assumption that is equally dangerous: that everyone involved in a project has the same view of how important it is, relative to everything else they are doing.

In a growing business, most people are operating at or near full capacity. When a project is added to someone’s existing responsibilities, it competes with work that has immediate, visible consequences if it is not done. The project, by contrast, has a deadline that feels further away, and consequences that are less immediate.

Without an explicit conversation about priority, and without someone actively managing the project’s claim on people’s time, the project tends to lose that competition. Not because anyone decides to deprioritise it, but because the day-to-day always feels more urgent.

This is how projects that everyone supports in principle end up being the thing that everyone is too busy to move forward in practice.

The cost of assumed alignment

The damage done by unclear accountability is often invisible at first. The project appears to be moving. People are attending meetings, tasks are being discussed, progress is being reported.

But underneath the surface, the gaps are accumulating. Actions from the last meeting have not been completed. A decision that was discussed has not actually been made. A dependency that was flagged has not been resolved.

By the time this becomes visible, the project is weeks or months behind, and the effort required to recover is significantly greater than the effort that would have been needed to prevent it.

What clear accountability actually looks like

Clarity on accountability does not require a formal project management framework or a dedicated project manager. But it does require a few deliberate habits that smaller businesses often skip in the interest of moving quickly.

It means agreeing, explicitly, who owns each workstream, and what that ownership means in practice. It means documenting decisions and actions, not to create bureaucracy, but because undocumented decisions tend to be unmade decisions. It means having a regular, structured touchpoint where progress is reviewed against commitments, not just discussed informally.

And it means someone taking responsibility for the project as a whole, not just their piece of it. In corporate settings that is the project manager’s role. In growing businesses it can be anyone, but it needs to be someone.

The value of an outside pair of eyes

One of the things external support does particularly well in project work is providing the neutral accountability that internal teams find difficult to sustain.

When everyone involved in a project is also running the business, it is genuinely hard to hold each other to account without it feeling personal. An external coordinator does not carry those dynamics. They can ask directly whether an action was completed, whether a decision has been made, whether the timeline is still realistic, in a way that keeps the project moving without damaging the relationships that the business depends on.

Accountability does not have to be uncomfortable. But it does have to exist. And in many growing businesses, ensuring it exists is one of the most valuable things an experienced outside hand can provide.

If you are running a project and finding that accountability is slipping, or if you are about to start one and want to make sure it does not, I am happy to talk through how the right support can help.

Get Ahead’s team works across the full range of project support, from planning and coordination to delivery and benefits tracking.

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Making Change Work – A series discussing project management in growing businesses:

The Operational Edge, Post 3 of 4

Most businesses treat the end of a project the same way. Relief that it is over. A brief internal conversation about what went well. A vague intention to do things differently next time.

Then next time arrives and nothing is different.

The post-event debrief is the stage of event management that most organisations compress or skip entirely, usually while still running on adrenaline and the relief of having got through it. It is also the stage that compounds the value of everything that came before it.

Two kinds of review

There is a version of the debrief that most people recognise and most people avoid. It is the one that feels like a post-mortem: what went wrong, whose fault was it, how do we make sure it doesn’t happen again. Even when framed constructively, it is uncomfortable.

The debrief I run is different in purpose, though not in structure. The question is not what went wrong. It is what did we learn. Those two questions produce completely different conversations.

The first looks for problems to fix. The second looks for patterns to carry forward, improvements to embed, and things that went well that need to be protected rather than allowed to drift.

What the debrief actually looks like

Within two to three weeks of any event, I sit down with my client to review four things: the numbers (delegate attendance against target, revenue against budget), the logistics (what worked, what created friction, what we would handle differently), the feedback gathered from delegates, and ideas for next year.

That last category is the one most people underestimate. Capturing ideas for the following year while they are still fresh is not about planning too far ahead. It is about not losing the thinking that happens in the room but never makes it into the formal record.

I keep a running note system throughout every event, logging observations in real time as they arise. Not problems necessarily, just things worth revisiting. By the time I sit down for the debrief, I have a physical record of things I noticed on the day that would otherwise have faded. Small details, things a delegate mentioned in passing, moments where something worked better than expected. All of it goes into the conversation.

The small things that last longest

A few years ago, a delegate mentioned to me in passing that the event lanyards only had names printed on one side. When they turned around, as they always do, the name became invisible. Scanning badges, making introductions: small frictions, repeated throughout the day, across every delegate.

I fixed it. Every event I have run since has had names printed on both sides.

Recently, a director at one of my events specifically thanked me for it. He had noticed. He had no idea it had come from a delegate comment several years earlier. He just knew it was a detail that had been thought about.

That is what the debrief builds over time: a layer of small, considered improvements that accumulate into an event that feels genuinely well run, rather than just well intentioned.

Listening over assuming

There is a version of the debrief that confirms what you already believed. And there is a version that challenges it.

A client had been talking for some time about growing their annual event. Bigger venue, more delegates, exhibitor space. The assumption was that bigger meant better, and that attendees would welcome the change.

Throughout the event I had been talking to delegates, gathering feedback in conversation rather than through formal surveys. The picture that emerged was the opposite of the assumption. People came back year after year specifically because of the size. The conversations were good. They met people they actually wanted to meet. They could not have done that at a larger event.

That feedback shaped the following year’s planning in a way that no survey would have captured, because it came from the right conversations at the right moment, listened to and recorded rather than assumed away.

What this means for your business

The debrief habit is not just for events. Any significant project, campaign, or period of change in a business deserves the same treatment: a structured review, conducted while the detail is still accessible, with the explicit goal of carrying forward what was learned.

What makes it hard to build as a habit is the same thing that makes it valuable: it requires you to stop, at the exact moment when the instinct is to start the next thing.

The investment is a few hours. The return is a compounding improvement in how you work, built gradually, across every project that follows.

The final post in this series draws the thread together: what event management taught me about growing a business, and why the operational thinking I built over years of running conferences is the thing I bring most directly to the clients I support through Get Ahead.


Our Event Planning Framework

If you would like a practical starting point for planning and reviewing your own events, I have put together a simple framework covering all six phases from commissioning through to debrief. Do let me know if you find it useful.


The Operational Edge: Event Planning and Debrief Framework


About the Author

Read more about Suzanne here.


In my last piece, I wrote about the missing keystone in change projects: the coordination layer that so often determines whether a programme moves or quietly drifts. Today I want to go one step further back, to the moment before any of that coordination begins.

Because in many cases, the real problem starts even earlier.

The pull towards doing

There is a particular kind of pressure that exists in smaller businesses. It is the pressure to be seen to be moving.

When a decision gets made, a new system, a process change, a restructure, the instinct is to start immediately. To assign tasks, hold a kick-off, begin. Planning can feel like a delay. A luxury. Something larger organisations do because they have the time and the people, but not something a growing business needs to spend weeks on.

I understand that instinct. In fast-moving businesses, momentum matters, and stopping to plan can feel like losing it.

But in my experience, both in large-scale corporate programmes and in the work I do with growing businesses across Yorkshire, skipping the planning phase does not save time. It borrows it, at a very high rate of interest.

What planning actually means

When I was working in Sales and Operations Planning at Morrisons, the entire discipline was built around one idea: before you commit to doing something, you need to understand what it will actually require.

Not in theory. In practice.

What are the resource implications? What does it cost, fully, not optimistically? Who is affected, and how? What has to stop, or slow down, in order for this to happen? What does success actually look like, and how will you know when you have reached it?

These are not complicated questions. But they are uncomfortable ones, because answering them honestly sometimes means adjusting the scope, the timeline, or the ambition of a project before it has even begun.

In large organisations, there are people whose job it is to ask these questions. Project managers, finance business partners, operational planners. They slow things down deliberately, because they know what happens when those questions do not get asked.

In most growing businesses, nobody has that role. And so the questions do not get asked, or they get answered quickly and optimistically, in a meeting where everyone is already committed to the idea.

The compounding cost of under-planning

The consequences show up later, and they compound.

A project scoped without proper resource planning runs out of capacity halfway through. A budget set without understanding the full cost of change gets exceeded before the hard work has even started. A timeline built without accounting for business-as-usual pressures slips, then slips again, until the original deadline becomes a source of embarrassment rather than a milestone.

And because the planning was not done at the start, each of these problems has to be solved in real time, under pressure, by people who are already stretched.

The project that was supposed to reduce the load on the leadership team ends up adding to it.

Why this happens more in smaller businesses

It would be easy to frame this as a discipline problem, as though business owners simply need to slow down and think more carefully. But that is not quite right.

The real driver is structural. In smaller businesses, fewer people are involved in any given decision, and roles are often less clearly defined. There is no one whose specific job is to challenge the plan before it becomes a commitment. The person who had the idea is often also the person leading the project, which makes it psychologically difficult to pump the brakes.

There is also a resource tension that is different from the corporate environment. In a large organisation, a planning phase has dedicated time and people attached to it. In a growing business, planning competes directly with the day-to-day work of running the business. It rarely wins that competition.

So projects begin underprepared, not through carelessness, but through a combination of pressure, structure, and the very real demands of keeping everything else moving at the same time.

What good planning looks like in a growing business

The answer is not to import a corporate planning process wholesale. That would be its own kind of mistake: too slow, too formal, and disconnected from the pace at which smaller businesses actually operate.

But there is a middle ground. A planning phase that is proportionate, practical, and focused on the questions that genuinely matter before work begins.

At minimum, that means being clear on scope: what is in this project, and what is deliberately out of it. It means understanding the resource picture honestly, who is doing what, alongside what else, and whether that is actually feasible. It means having a realistic view of cost that accounts for the indirect and hidden implications of change, not just the headline numbers. And it means agreeing what done looks like before anyone starts moving.

None of that requires a planning department. But it does require someone to hold the space for those conversations, and to keep holding it when the urge to just get on with it becomes hard to resist.

The value of an outside perspective

One of the things I find most useful when working with clients on change projects is simply being the person who asks the uncomfortable questions at the start.

Not to slow things down for the sake of it. But because I have seen enough projects, both at scale and in smaller businesses, to know which questions, left unanswered, tend to cause the most damage later.

An external perspective also helps with a problem that is surprisingly common in owner-led businesses: the difficulty of challenging your own assumptions when you are also the person most invested in the outcome.

Good planning is not pessimism. It is the work that makes everything that follows more likely to succeed.

Before the doing, the thinking

The urge to do is understandable. In growing businesses especially, action feels like progress, and planning can feel like its opposite.

But the projects I have seen succeed, at every scale and in every sector, share a common characteristic. Someone, at the beginning, made the time to ask the hard questions. To understand what the project would actually require. To make the plan before making the commitment.

That step does not guarantee success. But skipping it makes failure significantly more likely.

And the cost of going back to do the planning that was not done at the start, once a project is already in motion, already over budget, already behind, is always higher than doing it properly in the first place.

If you are approaching a change project and want to make sure the planning is solid before work begins, I am always happy to have that conversation.

Get Ahead’s team can support the full planning phase, from scoping and resource planning to cost modelling and stakeholder mapping, as well as the delivery that follows.

Get in touch: fiona@getaheadva.com   |   Explore our support: getaheadva.com

The Operational Edge, Post 2 of 4

Events have a way of expanding to fill all available time. That is not a criticism of events. It is a structural problem with how most businesses approach them.

The issue is rarely that running an event is too difficult. It is that the wrong people end up running it. And when the wrong people are managing the logistics, the right people stop doing what they are actually there to do.

The question that has to come first

Before any venue is booked or speaker is confirmed, there is one question that determines whether an event will be worth the investment: why are you running it, and how will you know if it worked?

I have seen events drift badly because nobody agreed this upfront. Marketing runs with enthusiasm. The original commercial objective gets diluted. Nobody is quite sure, afterwards, whether the event was a success or not, because nobody agreed what success looked like at the start.

This is the first conversation I have with any client. Not what do you want, but why do you want it. Delegate numbers. Leads generated. Relationships deepened. Profile raised with a specific audience. Agreeing this at the commissioning stage is what makes every subsequent decision easier, and what gives you something meaningful to review in the debrief.

The mistake that costs the most

A client I work with is now in its fifth year of running an annual conference. I did not run the first year. They did, using their own marketing and business development team.

They swore never to do that again.

Not because the event failed. It did not. But their business development team, the people whose job is to build relationships and convert conversations into business, spent the event day running logistics. Checking people in. Managing the catering. Pointing delegates to the right room. None of that is what a business development team is for.

The event happened. The return on the event did not.

The real cost of running an event yourself is rarely whether it goes smoothly. It is your best people doing the wrong job at exactly the moment when doing the right job matters most.

The decisions only you should make

There are things in any event that should not be delegated. Agreeing the budget and who has final sign-off. Deciding why the event is being run and what a successful outcome looks like. Choosing the format and the audience. These are strategic decisions that belong with whoever owns the commercial objective.

Everything else is operational. Venue liaison, delegate communications, logistics, supplier management, on-site coordination: all of it is delegatable. More than that, it needs to be delegated if the people who should be working the room are going to be free to do so.

What trust looks like when it builds

One of the most meaningful moments in a long client relationship came at the end of an event I had been running annually for several years. The director who had commissioned the work thanked his team, then mentioned, in passing, that he had had nothing to do with the event that year. He had simply arrived as a delegate.

He said it as a compliment.

In the early years of our working relationship, he had been closely involved in every decision. He wanted to understand the process, check the detail, stay across the logistics. That is entirely reasonable when you are entrusting something important to someone new.

By year three, we had developed a shorthand. If I swapped two speaker slots the day before, I sent him a brief note. No explanation required. He had enough experience of how I worked to know that if I had made a change, there was a reason for it.

That level of trust does not come from a contract. It comes from consistently doing what you say you will do, communicating only what the other person actually needs to know, and not creating work for them when the situation does not require it.

What this means for your business

Owner-led businesses often underestimate how much they are carrying themselves. Not because they have not thought about delegation, but because explaining something and managing someone else doing it can feel like more effort than doing it themselves.

Sometimes that calculation is right. For routine, low-stakes tasks, perhaps.

For an event, it is almost never right. The preparation required to brief someone properly is an investment that pays back on the day, when your commercial team are free to do what they are actually there for.

The next post in this series takes a slightly different angle: not what happens during an event, but what happens after. Specifically, the debrief most businesses skip, and why skipping it costs more than it saves.

The first post in this series, which discusses the planning required for a successful event, is here.


About the Author

Read more about Suzanne here.


WHAT RETAIL TAUGHT ME ABOUT BUSINESS – POST 3 OF 4

Before I became a Regional Director for Get Ahead, I spent years as a Buying Director for major UK retailers including Ryman and Signet. This series isn’t a career retrospective. It’s about the skills, instincts, and lessons from that world that still shape how I work today, and why they matter for the business owners I support. 

One of the things buyers get asked most often, in my experience, is why they said no. 

Not to a bad product. Not to something obviously wrong for the range. But to something that, on the surface, looked perfectly reasonable. Good quality. Competitive price. A supplier with a solid track record. And still, the answer was no. 

The reason is almost always the same: it was right, but it wasn’t right for us. For now. For this customer. For this part of the range. The product itself wasn’t the problem. The fit was. 

Learning to make that distinction clearly, and to trust it even when the pressure was on to say yes, is one of the most valuable things a buying career teaches you. 

Good product, wrong fit – the most expensive mistake in buying 

In buying, a trusted supplier relationship changes the texture of everything. When a product isn’t performing, a trusted supplier tells you eIn retail buying, ‘good product, wrong fit’ is one of the most common and most costly errors a team can make. It happens when the selection process focuses on the product in isolation rather than in context. Is it well made? Yes. Is it priced correctly? Yes. Will our customers want it, in this store, at this moment? That’s the question that gets skipped. 

The consequences show up a few months later. Slow sales. High stock levels. Markdown pressure. The product takes up space that a better-fitting product could have occupied, and the margin takes a hit that could have been avoided. Not because the product was poor, but because it was chosen for the wrong context. 

The discipline of evaluating fit over features, of asking ‘is this right for us?’ rather than just ‘is this good?’, is something that has to be actively maintained. There is always pressure to fill a gap, to take the available option, to move the process forward. Standing still long enough to properly assess fit requires confidence in the judgment and a willingness to be patient when patience feels uncomfortable. 

When I walk away from something I like 

Some of the decisions I’m most comfortable with in my buying career are the ones where I said no to something I genuinely liked. 

Not products that were obviously wrong. But products that were interesting, well-presented, commercially attractive, and still not the right fit for what we needed. Walking away from those required a kind of discipline that got easier with practice but never became entirely comfortable. There’s always a part of you that wonders whether you made the right call. 

In retail, I walked away from products I liked all the time. Not because they were wrong, but because they were wrong for us, for now. That judgment is one of the most valuable things buying taught me. 

What made it easier was having a clear picture of what ‘right fit’ actually looked like. Not a vague sense that something wasn’t quite right, but a specific understanding of the customer, the range gap, the context into which a product needed to fit. The clearer that picture was, the more confident the no became

Fit over features in business support 

The same principle applies, with striking consistency, to the work I do now. 

When a business owner is looking for a Virtual Expert, the temptation is to focus on the capability list. Can they do social media? Bookkeeping? Executive assistant work? Those are the features. They matter, but they don’t determine fit. 

Fit is about something more specific: whether this person, with this particular style of working, will actually mesh well with this business owner, at this stage of their business. Whether their pace matches the pace of the business. Whether their communication style will work in a remote relationship with limited briefing time. Whether they’ll ask the right questions or wait to be told what to do. 

WHY THIS MATTERS NOW 

It’s worth naming this directly, because there are now platforms that use AI to match businesses with freelance support based on skills, availability, and budget. They’re efficient. They remove friction from the process. And they are, almost entirely, feature-matching rather than fit-matching. 

They can tell you who can do the work. They can’t tell you who will work well with you. That judgment – the quieter, more contextual, more human assessment of fit – is something that still requires a conversation. And it’s one of the reasons the matching conversation matters as much as it does. 

A Virtual Expert who is talented, experienced, and highly capable can still be the wrong fit for a particular business. And a wrong fit, even with the best intentions on both sides, tends to produce frustration rather than results. The hours get spent. The tasks get done. But the relationship never quite settles, and the business owner ends the arrangement without being entirely sure what went wrong. 

What went wrong, almost always, is that the fit wasn’t properly assessed at the start.  

Why the right fit protects everyone 

Getting fit right at the outset isn’t just good for the client. It’s good for the Virtual Expert, and it’s good for the working relationship between them. 

A well-matched arrangement allows a Virtual Expert to do their best work. They understand the business, they understand the owner’s priorities, and they can contribute with genuine confidence rather than constantly second-guessing whether they’re approaching things the right way. That confidence is good for the work and good for the relationship. 

A poorly matched arrangement does the opposite. It creates friction that nobody wanted and that drains energy from both sides. No amount of goodwill on either side fully compensates for a fundamental mismatch in working style or expectation. 

This is why the conversation I have with business owners before any matching happens matters so much. Not because I’m trying to complicate a simple process, but because taking the time to understand the context, the business, and what ‘right fit’ actually looks like in this specific situation is what makes everything that follows more likely to work. 

A Final Thought

Buying taught me to trust the no as much as the yes. 

Not every good thing is the right thing. Not every capable person is the right person for every role. Fit matters more than features, and knowing when something doesn’t fit, even when it looks good on paper, is a skill worth developing. 

For business owners making decisions about support, the question worth asking isn’t just ‘can they do the work?’ It’s ‘will this actually work, for us, right now?’ Those are different questions. And the second one is the one that matters most. 


If you’d like to think through what the right fit for your business might actually look like, that’s exactly the kind of conversation I enjoy. I’m always happy to explore it with you

I’m Vicky McKenna, Regional Director for Get Ahead in Oxfordshire. 

Next in the series: The Weight of the Decision.



What Retail Taught Me About Business

What a career in retail buying taught Vicky McKenna about business, and why those lessons matter more than ever.

  1. The Art of the Brief
  2. Relationships are the Real Margin
  3. Knowing when Something doesn’t fit
  4. The Weight of the Decision

WHAT RETAIL TAUGHT ME ABOUT BUSINESS – POST 4 OF 4

Before I became a Regional Director for Get Ahead, I spent years as a Buying Director for major UK retailers including Ryman and Signet. This series isn’t a career retrospective. It’s about the skills, instincts, and lessons from that world that still shape how I work today, and why they matter for the business owners I support. 

There’s a particular feeling I remember from the end of a range sign-off meeting. 

The decisions have been made. The spreadsheets are updated. The suppliers have been briefed. And then, in the quiet after the meeting, comes the weight of it. The awareness that those decisions will show up on shop floors across the country in a few months’ time. That customers will engage with them, or they won’t. That the business will make money from them, or it won’t. That your judgment was sound, or it wasn’t. 

No one talks about that feeling very much in a corporate buying environment. The culture tends to reward confidence and forward momentum. But the weight is always there, underneath. And over time, I came to think of it not as a burden but as information. A signal that the decisions mattered. That the accountability was real. 

What high-stakes decision-making actually feels like 

InSenior buying roles involve a particular kind of pressure that’s hard to describe to someone who hasn’t experienced it. You’re making decisions that will affect stock levels across hundreds of stores, supplier relationships, hundreds of thousands of pounds of investment, and ultimately the trading performance of categories that the business depends on. You’re doing this with incomplete information, under time pressure, often in the face of conflicting signals from the market. 

The decisions themselves are rarely straightforward. The data gives you part of the picture. Your instinct gives you another part. The brief you’ve established, the relationships you’ve built, the context you’ve accumulated over years in a sector, all of that feeds into a judgment call that is, ultimately, yours to make. 

You get better at it. But you never stop feeling the weight of it. And I think that’s right. The moment a decision stops feeling weighty is probably the moment you’ve stopped taking it seriously enough. 

Why that experience changes how I listen 

When a business owner sits down with me and starts to describe what’s going on in their business, I notice things that I’m not sure I would have noticed without those years in buying roles. 

I notice when someone is carrying more than they’re saying. The slight tension in how they describe a situation that they’re framing as manageable. The decisions they mention in passing that are clearly not small at all. The gap between how things look from the outside and how they’re actually feeling from the inside. 

Running a growing business involves a version of the same pressure I experienced in senior buying roles: high-stakes decisions, incomplete information, real accountability, and often very few people around you who truly understand the weight of what you’re carrying. The specifics are different. The texture of it is remarkably similar. 

When you’ve sat in rooms making decisions that affect entire product ranges and entire teams, you understand what business owners are carrying. That’s not something you read about. It’s something you feel. 

That recognition matters, I think, in the conversations I have with clients. Not because I want to project my own experience onto theirs, every business is different, and every business owner’s situation is specific to them. But because having genuinely experienced that kind of pressure means I don’t underestimate it. I don’t treat the mental load of running a business as a side issue or a lifestyle complaint. It’s a real thing, with real consequences, that deserves a real response. 

The difference between support that completes tasks and support that eases the load 

There’s a version of business support that is essentially transactional. Tasks come in, tasks go out. The diary gets managed, the inbox gets sorted, the social media gets scheduled. Everything on the list gets done. And the business owner is still, somehow, exhausted at the end of the week. 

That’s not because the support wasn’t competent. It’s because the support was addressing the visible surface of the problem rather than the underlying one. The tasks were getting done, but the mental load wasn’t shifting. The decisions were still all sitting with one person. The weight hadn’t moved. 

Good support does something different. It doesn’t just take tasks off a list. It takes decisions off a desk. A Virtual Expert who truly understands a business can start to carry some of the cognitive weight of running it: anticipating what’s needed before being asked, flagging things that need attention, making judgment calls within their area of responsibility so the business owner doesn’t have to make every one themselves. 

That shift, from task completion to genuine decision support, is where business support becomes genuinely valuable. It requires a level of trust that takes time to build. But when it’s there, the difference is significant, not just in what gets done, but in how the business owner feels at the end of the week. 

On asking for help 

One of the things I noticed in corporate buying environments is how rarely people asked for help openly. The culture rewarded self-sufficiency, confidence, the appearance of having everything under control. Asking for support felt like admitting a gap, which felt like weakness, which felt like professional risk. 

It took me a while to understand that the opposite is true. The most commercially effective people I’ve worked with have been the ones who are clearest about what they know and what they don’t, about where they need input and where they can run independently. That clarity isn’t weakness. It’s good judgment about how to deploy limited resources, including your own energy and attention, for maximum effect. 

For business owners, I think the same reframe is worth making. Bringing in support isn’t a sign that the business is struggling. It’s a sign that the business is being run well. It’s the decision to direct your energy toward the things only you can do, and to trust capable people with the things they can do better or faster than you. 

That’s not giving something up. It’s making a smart call about where the real value of your time lies. 

WHY THIS MATTERS NOW 

A word on AI, since it’s increasingly part of the conversation about how businesses reduce the pressure of decision-making. Used well, it genuinely helps: better information, faster analysis, more options surfaced more quickly. I use it myself and I think the businesses that learn to work with it thoughtfully will have a real advantage. 

But it doesn’t carry the weight. It doesn’t feel the accountability. And it can’t make the judgment calls that depend on context, relationship, and the kind of accumulated experience that comes from years of getting decisions right and wrong. 

The decisions that matter most in a growing business, the ones about people, direction, investment, trust, still need a human in the room. Someone who understands what’s at stake, who will sit with the discomfort of uncertainty, and who will own the outcome. AI can support that person. It can’t replace them. 

Which is, in its own way, an argument for exactly the kind of support this series has been exploring: the right people, chosen carefully, trusted over time. 

A Final Thought

Retail taught me that the weight of a decision is proportional to what’s at stake. And what’s at stake, when you’re running a business you’ve built, is considerable. 

The business owners I work with are carrying real responsibility. Real pressure. Real accountability. Not to a line manager or a trading director, but to themselves, to the people who work with them, and to the clients who depend on them. 

That deserves to be taken seriously. And the right support, brought in at the right time, is one of the most practical and most honest responses to it. 

Not because you can’t manage alone. But because you don’t have to. 


If you’re carrying more than you should be, and you’d like to explore what the right support could look like for your business, I’d love to have that conversation. 

I’m Vicky McKenna, Regional Director for Get Ahead in Oxfordshire. 

Next in the series: Knowing When Something Doesn’t Fit. 


What Retail Taught Me About Business

What a career in retail buying taught Vicky McKenna about business, and why those lessons matter more than ever.

  1. The Art of the Brief
  2. Relationships are the Real Margin
  3. Knowing when Something doesn’t fit
  4. The Weight of the Decision