In previous pieces I have written about planning, accountability, and the gap between delivering a project and realising its benefits. In this one I want to step back and look at something that sits beneath all of those: the cost of not deciding, and the art of knowing which decisions actually matter.

No decision is a decision

One of the things I learned early in my career, managing complex supply chain programmes, is that a stalled project is never neutral. It always has a cost. The question is only whether that cost is visible.

When a project drifts, when scope discussions go unresolved, when the next step waits for a conversation that keeps being postponed, the business is not standing still. It is continuing to operate without the improvement the project was designed to deliver. Every week of delay is a week without the benefit.

That is the opportunity cost of an unfinished project. It is real, it compounds, and it is almost never quantified.

The morale cost is equally real

There is another cost that is harder to measure but just as damaging: what a stalled project does to the people involved in it.

I have seen this in my own career, and I see it regularly with growing businesses. A team that commits energy and effort to a change programme, and then watches it drift and stall, does not simply shrug and move on. They become more cautious. They are less willing to invest in the next project. The instinct that change is possible and worth attempting gets quietly eroded.

And the business owner or leader who sponsored the project carries the additional weight of a commitment not delivered. That weight accumulates across multiple stalled projects, and it is one of the most consistent sources of leadership fatigue in growing businesses.

Morale is not soft. In a smaller business, where the energy and belief of a small group of people is often the primary competitive advantage, morale is a genuinely strategic resource. Wasting it on projects that drift is a cost that deserves to be taken seriously.

Sometimes you have to keep moving

All of this points to a principle that is counterintuitive for many business owners: sometimes the worst option is to wait for more information or a better moment.

Projects stall most often not because the decisions are genuinely impossible, but because the people involved are not comfortable making them without certainty they will never have. They wait for the risk to reduce, for alignment to emerge naturally, for someone else to take the first step.

Meanwhile the cost of not deciding keeps accumulating.

There is a version of caution that is wisdom: taking the time to understand what you are deciding and what the consequences are. And there is a version of caution that is avoidance, dressed up as diligence. The skill is telling the difference, which is easier when you have an experienced outside perspective and harder when you are close to the project and carrying the pressure of it.

Not all decisions are equal

The other side of this is equally important: not every decision in a project is a decision that needs to be agonised over.

In my experience, most projects have a small number of genuinely critical decisions, the ones where the choice of direction will have a lasting, material impact on the outcome. And a much larger number of decisions that feel significant in the moment, generate extended discussion, and ultimately make very little difference to the result.

The skill of good project leadership, and of experienced external support, is distinguishing between the two. Knowing when to push for a decision because the cost of delay is real, and knowing when to make a pragmatic call and move on because the decision is less important than the momentum it is consuming.

Spending hours debating a choice that turns out to be marginal is itself a cost. The time and energy that goes into low-stakes decisions is time and energy that is not available for the decisions that genuinely matter.

The discipline of moving

What this adds up to is a case for a particular kind of project discipline: the discipline of keeping things moving, even when not everything is resolved.

That does not mean ignoring risk or making reckless decisions. It means having a clear sense of which risks are worth managing carefully and which ones are overstated. It means being willing to make a good enough decision now rather than waiting for a perfect one that may never arrive. And it means having someone in the project whose job includes recognising when delay is becoming more costly than the thing being delayed over.

In growing businesses, that discipline is hard to maintain from the inside. Everyone is close to the work. Everyone has a stake in the decisions. And the pressure of the day-to-day makes it easy to let project decisions wait for a better moment.

That better moment rarely comes on its own.

Making the cost visible

One of the most useful things an outside perspective brings to a stalled project is simply making the cost of the stall visible.

Not as a criticism, but as a practical question: what is this delay actually costing us? What would we have, if we had decided this three months ago? What will we not have, if we continue to wait?

When those questions get asked directly, the case for moving tends to become clearer. The risk of a decision that turns out to be slightly wrong usually looks smaller than the cost of not deciding at all.

The projects I have seen recover from difficult stalls almost always share a common turning point: a moment when someone named the cost of waiting, and the team chose to move.

If you have a project that has lost momentum, or a decision that has been sitting unresolved for longer than it should, I am always happy to think it through with you. Sometimes an outside perspective is all it takes to see a clear way forward.

Get Ahead’s team works across the full range of project support, from planning and coordination to delivery and benefits tracking.

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In this series I have written about the planning that gets skipped at the start, and the accountability that drifts once a project is underway. This time I want to focus on the end, or rather, what happens when a project does not quite get there, and what is lost when it does not.

The statistics are stark

The data on project outcomes is not reassuring. Research by the Project Management Institute found that only around 29% of projects are completed on time and within budget. The Standish CHAOS Report, which has tracked project outcomes for decades, consistently finds that fewer than a third of projects are considered fully successful.

A separate PwC study of more than 10,000 projects found that only 2.5% of organisations complete all of their projects successfully.

These figures are drawn largely from larger organisations with dedicated project management capability. The picture in smaller businesses, where projects tend to be less formally managed, is unlikely to be more encouraging.

Most projects, in most organisations, do not fully deliver what they set out to do.

Why projects stall in the final stretch

The halfway point of a project is where the energy peaks. The initial excitement is still present, some progress is visible, and the end feels close enough to motivate.

But the final third is harder. The interesting, creative work is largely done. What remains is often the detailed, painstaking work of implementation: testing, training, communication, process embedding, and the thousand small tasks that turn a project output into something the business can actually use.

This is also the point at which the business, having waited patiently for the project to deliver, starts to expect results. Pressure builds. People who have been borrowed from their day jobs want to return to them. Sponsors who have been funding the work want to see a return.

And so, more often than not, the project is declared done before it is finished. A system goes live without proper training. A new process is documented but not embedded. A change is announced but not followed through.

Finishing is not the same as succeeding

This is the distinction that project management theory calls benefits realisation, and it is the phase that most organisations handle least well.

A project is not successful because it was delivered on time and within budget. It is successful because the change it was designed to create actually happened, and the business is genuinely better as a result.

If a new CRM system goes live but the sales team does not adopt it, the project has not succeeded. If a new process is designed but not followed, the project has not succeeded. If a restructure is completed on paper but the working patterns and relationships do not change, the project has not succeeded.

Benefits realisation is the work of making sure the change actually lands. It is unglamorous, it is slow, and it requires sustained attention after the moment of launch when everyone’s focus has already moved on. Which is precisely why it so often does not happen.

Why this matters more in growing businesses

In a large organisation, a project team might stay in place for months after go-live to support adoption, manage issues, and track whether the intended benefits are being realised. There are often formal review points, benefit tracking mechanisms, and governance structures that persist beyond delivery.

In a growing business, the project team is usually the senior leadership team, plus whoever else could be spared. When the project is declared done, everyone returns to their day jobs immediately. The headspace that was devoted to the project disappears almost overnight.

And so the final 10% of the work, the embedding, the adoption, the measurement, gets quietly abandoned. The project is considered finished. The benefits are assumed rather than tracked. And six months later, when someone asks whether things have changed, the honest answer is: not as much as we expected.

Asking the question at the start

The most effective way to improve benefits realisation is to define what it looks like before the project begins.

What does success look like, specifically, 90 days after go-live? What behaviours will have changed? What metrics will have moved? Who is responsible for tracking that, and what happens if it is not happening?

These questions are uncomfortable to answer before the project has started, because the honest answer is often: we do not know yet. But the act of asking them forces a clarity about purpose that makes everything that follows more deliberate.

A project with a clear definition of the change it is trying to create is more likely to get to the end. And a project team that knows it will be asked to demonstrate benefits is more likely to plan for the work of realising them.

The question worth asking

Before the next project begins, it is worth asking a simple question: if we get to the end and declare this done, how will we know whether it actually worked?

If the answer is uncertain, that uncertainty is worth resolving before the project starts, not after it finishes.

The cost of a project that delivers without landing is not just the budget and the time. It is the opportunity cost of change that did not happen, and the organisational fatigue of going through the process of change without receiving its benefits.

That is an expensive outcome. And in most cases, it is a preventable one.

If you are planning a project and want to think through how you will know whether it has truly succeeded, or if you are partway through one and wondering whether the benefits are being properly tracked, I am always happy to have that conversation.

Get Ahead’s team works across the full range of project support, from planning and coordination to delivery and benefits tracking.

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This series has explored why projects stall before they start, when planning gets skipped in the rush to act. But even when a project is well-planned, there is another failure mode that is just as common, and just as avoidable. It is the question of who, exactly, is responsible for making it happen.

The accountability assumption

In a small team, a lot goes unsaid. That is often a genuine strength. Growing businesses move quickly precisely because there is less bureaucracy, fewer sign-offs, and a higher degree of mutual trust and understanding between the people involved.

But that same informality creates a particular kind of risk in project work. When responsibilities are assumed rather than agreed, when everyone believes someone else has picked up a task, and when the shared understanding of priorities turns out not to be shared at all, projects begin to drift. And often nobody notices until the drift has become a delay.

This is not a problem that only affects large organisations with complex hierarchies. In many respects it is more acute in smaller businesses, precisely because there are fewer people, roles are less defined, and the assumption of alignment runs deeper.

We’re a small team, we know what we’re doing

One of the most common things I hear at the start of a project in a growing business is some version of: we do not need a lot of process, we all know each other, we communicate well.

And it is usually true, as a general description of how the business operates day to day.

But a project is not day-to-day operations. It is a temporary, specific piece of work with its own timeline, its own dependencies, and its own demands on people who are already busy doing other things. The informal communication that keeps the business running smoothly is not the same as the structured accountability that keeps a project on track.

When those two things get confused, the results are predictable. Tasks sit in the gap between people, each assuming the other has picked them up. Decisions that need to be made wait for a conversation that never quite happens. Priorities shift without the project team being told, because nobody formally owns the communication.

The priority problem

There is a related assumption that is equally dangerous: that everyone involved in a project has the same view of how important it is, relative to everything else they are doing.

In a growing business, most people are operating at or near full capacity. When a project is added to someone’s existing responsibilities, it competes with work that has immediate, visible consequences if it is not done. The project, by contrast, has a deadline that feels further away, and consequences that are less immediate.

Without an explicit conversation about priority, and without someone actively managing the project’s claim on people’s time, the project tends to lose that competition. Not because anyone decides to deprioritise it, but because the day-to-day always feels more urgent.

This is how projects that everyone supports in principle end up being the thing that everyone is too busy to move forward in practice.

The cost of assumed alignment

The damage done by unclear accountability is often invisible at first. The project appears to be moving. People are attending meetings, tasks are being discussed, progress is being reported.

But underneath the surface, the gaps are accumulating. Actions from the last meeting have not been completed. A decision that was discussed has not actually been made. A dependency that was flagged has not been resolved.

By the time this becomes visible, the project is weeks or months behind, and the effort required to recover is significantly greater than the effort that would have been needed to prevent it.

What clear accountability actually looks like

Clarity on accountability does not require a formal project management framework or a dedicated project manager. But it does require a few deliberate habits that smaller businesses often skip in the interest of moving quickly.

It means agreeing, explicitly, who owns each workstream, and what that ownership means in practice. It means documenting decisions and actions, not to create bureaucracy, but because undocumented decisions tend to be unmade decisions. It means having a regular, structured touchpoint where progress is reviewed against commitments, not just discussed informally.

And it means someone taking responsibility for the project as a whole, not just their piece of it. In corporate settings that is the project manager’s role. In growing businesses it can be anyone, but it needs to be someone.

The value of an outside pair of eyes

One of the things external support does particularly well in project work is providing the neutral accountability that internal teams find difficult to sustain.

When everyone involved in a project is also running the business, it is genuinely hard to hold each other to account without it feeling personal. An external coordinator does not carry those dynamics. They can ask directly whether an action was completed, whether a decision has been made, whether the timeline is still realistic, in a way that keeps the project moving without damaging the relationships that the business depends on.

Accountability does not have to be uncomfortable. But it does have to exist. And in many growing businesses, ensuring it exists is one of the most valuable things an experienced outside hand can provide.

If you are running a project and finding that accountability is slipping, or if you are about to start one and want to make sure it does not, I am happy to talk through how the right support can help.

Get Ahead’s team works across the full range of project support, from planning and coordination to delivery and benefits tracking.

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In my last piece, I wrote about the missing keystone in change projects: the coordination layer that so often determines whether a programme moves or quietly drifts. Today I want to go one step further back, to the moment before any of that coordination begins.

Because in many cases, the real problem starts even earlier.

The pull towards doing

There is a particular kind of pressure that exists in smaller businesses. It is the pressure to be seen to be moving.

When a decision gets made, a new system, a process change, a restructure, the instinct is to start immediately. To assign tasks, hold a kick-off, begin. Planning can feel like a delay. A luxury. Something larger organisations do because they have the time and the people, but not something a growing business needs to spend weeks on.

I understand that instinct. In fast-moving businesses, momentum matters, and stopping to plan can feel like losing it.

But in my experience, both in large-scale corporate programmes and in the work I do with growing businesses across Yorkshire, skipping the planning phase does not save time. It borrows it, at a very high rate of interest.

What planning actually means

When I was working in Sales and Operations Planning at Morrisons, the entire discipline was built around one idea: before you commit to doing something, you need to understand what it will actually require.

Not in theory. In practice.

What are the resource implications? What does it cost, fully, not optimistically? Who is affected, and how? What has to stop, or slow down, in order for this to happen? What does success actually look like, and how will you know when you have reached it?

These are not complicated questions. But they are uncomfortable ones, because answering them honestly sometimes means adjusting the scope, the timeline, or the ambition of a project before it has even begun.

In large organisations, there are people whose job it is to ask these questions. Project managers, finance business partners, operational planners. They slow things down deliberately, because they know what happens when those questions do not get asked.

In most growing businesses, nobody has that role. And so the questions do not get asked, or they get answered quickly and optimistically, in a meeting where everyone is already committed to the idea.

The compounding cost of under-planning

The consequences show up later, and they compound.

A project scoped without proper resource planning runs out of capacity halfway through. A budget set without understanding the full cost of change gets exceeded before the hard work has even started. A timeline built without accounting for business-as-usual pressures slips, then slips again, until the original deadline becomes a source of embarrassment rather than a milestone.

And because the planning was not done at the start, each of these problems has to be solved in real time, under pressure, by people who are already stretched.

The project that was supposed to reduce the load on the leadership team ends up adding to it.

Why this happens more in smaller businesses

It would be easy to frame this as a discipline problem, as though business owners simply need to slow down and think more carefully. But that is not quite right.

The real driver is structural. In smaller businesses, fewer people are involved in any given decision, and roles are often less clearly defined. There is no one whose specific job is to challenge the plan before it becomes a commitment. The person who had the idea is often also the person leading the project, which makes it psychologically difficult to pump the brakes.

There is also a resource tension that is different from the corporate environment. In a large organisation, a planning phase has dedicated time and people attached to it. In a growing business, planning competes directly with the day-to-day work of running the business. It rarely wins that competition.

So projects begin underprepared, not through carelessness, but through a combination of pressure, structure, and the very real demands of keeping everything else moving at the same time.

What good planning looks like in a growing business

The answer is not to import a corporate planning process wholesale. That would be its own kind of mistake: too slow, too formal, and disconnected from the pace at which smaller businesses actually operate.

But there is a middle ground. A planning phase that is proportionate, practical, and focused on the questions that genuinely matter before work begins.

At minimum, that means being clear on scope: what is in this project, and what is deliberately out of it. It means understanding the resource picture honestly, who is doing what, alongside what else, and whether that is actually feasible. It means having a realistic view of cost that accounts for the indirect and hidden implications of change, not just the headline numbers. And it means agreeing what done looks like before anyone starts moving.

None of that requires a planning department. But it does require someone to hold the space for those conversations, and to keep holding it when the urge to just get on with it becomes hard to resist.

The value of an outside perspective

One of the things I find most useful when working with clients on change projects is simply being the person who asks the uncomfortable questions at the start.

Not to slow things down for the sake of it. But because I have seen enough projects, both at scale and in smaller businesses, to know which questions, left unanswered, tend to cause the most damage later.

An external perspective also helps with a problem that is surprisingly common in owner-led businesses: the difficulty of challenging your own assumptions when you are also the person most invested in the outcome.

Good planning is not pessimism. It is the work that makes everything that follows more likely to succeed.

Before the doing, the thinking

The urge to do is understandable. In growing businesses especially, action feels like progress, and planning can feel like its opposite.

But the projects I have seen succeed, at every scale and in every sector, share a common characteristic. Someone, at the beginning, made the time to ask the hard questions. To understand what the project would actually require. To make the plan before making the commitment.

That step does not guarantee success. But skipping it makes failure significantly more likely.

And the cost of going back to do the planning that was not done at the start, once a project is already in motion, already over budget, already behind, is always higher than doing it properly in the first place.

If you are approaching a change project and want to make sure the planning is solid before work begins, I am always happy to have that conversation.

Get Ahead’s team can support the full planning phase, from scoping and resource planning to cost modelling and stakeholder mapping, as well as the delivery that follows.

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Finding a partner that aligns with your needs

It can feel daunting to realise you need support and don’t know where to begin. It may feel as though your organisation is not running at full potential and you need assistance with certain functions. But trust is important. Trusting an organisation and its people to have access to data and to communicate with your audience. So, where to start?

First, work out exactly what you need. Define your core requirements and create a scope of work so that both sides are clear on expectations. Include budgets and timelines so that you have a framework to work with. When you begin your search, you will see if outsourcing companies meet your goals.

At Get Ahead, we make sure that our case studies are available and relevant for potential clients to understand how we work, the skills that we cover and how we can help.

Working to a common goal

An effective outsourcing company will take interest in your overall goals. They’ll want to understand your business and your strategy, not just the parts that need help. To make your business as efficient as possible, a proficient partner will spend time listening and understanding and selecting the right person to work with you to achieve your short- and long-term goals.

As an experienced outsourcing provider, Get Ahead succeeds in improving your ability to return to your core activities and improve customer satisfaction and output.

Carrying out due diligence with a new partner

A reliable and trustworthy outsourcing partner will explain and show proof of how they secure your data and precautions taken to ensure that you are matched with the right person for your organisational needs.

Vicky McKenna, Regional Director for Oxford and Bucks, says:

‘Security is a top priority at Get Ahead. Each of our virtual experts are insured with the ICO to protect your data and adhere to strict guidelines. We use your data responsibly and also have policies around AI.

In terms of ensuring you are working with the person best suited to your organisation, ask plenty of questions. How many specialists are on your team? Do you have the skills that I require? Have you worked with similar organisations to ours? How will I know that they care about our business and our output?’

If a partner doesn’t welcome questions and a dialogue, that tells you want you need to know! If you still feel unsure and need some answers – read this piece about barriers to delegation.

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Why SME Projects Often Stall, And the Missing Piece That Makes Them Work 

I spent nearly two decades working in supply chain and project management at Morrisons. In that time, I was part of projects most people would find genuinely daunting: integrating the Safeway business after the acquisition, implementing Oracle across manufacturing sites, and building new supply chain teams from scratch. 

What I learned from those experiences – and what I see confirmed every week in my work with SMEs across Yorkshire – is this: the biggest risk to any change project rarely lies in the strategy. It lies in the structure around it. 

Specifically, in what’s missing from it. 

The moment every growing business recognises 

There comes a point in the life of most growing businesses where change stops being optional. 

A new CRM system needs implementing. An operational process needs redesigning. A reporting framework needs rebuilding. A new service line needs launching with proper structure behind it. 

These projects are sensible and often genuinely important. The leadership team agrees the objective. The budget is broadly understood. Someone is asked to lead it. 

And then, quietly, something happens. 

The project slows. Decisions drift. Tasks get started but not completed. Months pass, and the business finds itself asking the same question it was asking at the beginning: why hasn’t this moved forward? 

What large organisations know, and that SMEs rarely have 

When I was part of the Safeway integration, the project didn’t succeed because the strategy was brilliant. It succeeded because there was an entire infrastructure of people keeping it moving – project managers, operational coordinators, finance oversight, communications leads, administrative support. 

Each of those roles played a small but essential part. They weren’t the headline act. But without them, nothing would have come together. 

In most SMEs, those roles simply don’t exist. 

Instead, the project sits alongside everyone’s existing responsibilities. A director sponsors it. A manager contributes when they can. A supplier delivers their specific piece. Individually, everyone involved is capable. But the connective tissue that holds the whole thing together is missing. 

The keystone nobody talks about 

In architecture, a keystone is the single stone at the top of an arch that holds everything else in place. Without it, the structure collapses – not because the other stones aren’t solid, but because there’s nothing binding them together. 

SME projects have their own version of the keystone. It’s rarely the most visible part of the work. It’s the unglamorous, practical coordination layer that makes everything else function. 

It’s the person who orchestrates the meetings and keeps momentum between them. The one who translates a good idea into a clearly articulated operating model that everyone can actually follow. The one tracking actions, chasing progress, making sure decisions are documented and communicated before they get lost in someone’s inbox. 

It’s budget and resource tracking that’s genuinely up to date. Stakeholder management that keeps everyone aligned as the project evolves. The discipline – quiet but essential – of making sure that the right things happen at the right time. 

None of these tasks feel like “the project.” But without them, the project doesn’t really happen. 

This isn’t a leadership problem 

I want to be clear about something, because I see it misdiagnosed all the time. 

When SME projects stall, it’s rarely because the leadership is weak or the vision is flawed. It’s a structural consequence of growth. Most SMEs don’t have the scale to employ dedicated project teams for every piece of change work. Most senior people are already running the business day-to-day, at full capacity. 

The strategic thinking exists. The expertise exists. The intention exists. What’s missing is the operational structure that keeps everything moving – and that gap doesn’t close by itself. 

Where the right support changes everything 

This is where external support – the right kind – makes a real difference. 

Not consultants who produce a report and disappear. Practical, operational people who understand how change actually works – and who can step in to provide the coordination layer that most SME projects lack. 

At Get Ahead, this is something we see first-hand. Every project is different, and every business has its own pressures and priorities. But the pattern we return to again and again is the same: once the missing glue is in place, projects that were drifting suddenly regain momentum. Not because the strategy changed, but because the structure around it finally exists. 

The support might look like project coordination and orchestration. Process mapping and operating model design. Communication and stakeholder management. Budget and resource tracking. Sometimes it’s simply someone who makes sure things actually happen – consistently, at the right time, without the business owner having to carry all of that themselves. 

Change doesn’t just need vision – it needs structure 

Most SME leaders I work with have no shortage of ideas for improving their business. Better systems. Better processes. Better ways of working that would genuinely free them up to focus on growth. 

The ideas aren’t the obstacle. The gap between idea and operational reality is. 

Bridging that gap is detailed, unglamorous, genuinely important work. The coordination. The communication. The tracking. The quiet discipline of making sure things actually happen, in the right order, at the right time. 

That’s the keystone. And in many growing businesses, it’s the piece that makes everything else possible. 


If you’re leading a change project that’s lost momentum – or planning one and want to get the structure right from the start – I’d love to have a conversation. 

Get Ahead’s team works across the full range of project support – from coordination and documentation to process design and stakeholder management. We provide the glue that makes change stick. 

 Get in touch: fiona@getaheadva.com  


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Is Your Business Actually Showing Up on Social Media?

I’ve been watching social media change for a long time. And lately, something has shifted in a way that feels different from previous cycles of platform hype and algorithm updates.

The feeds are full. But the people, increasingly, are elsewhere.

What I mean by that is this: the volume of content being published across every major social platform is growing. But the proportion of that content genuinely written by a human being, in their own voice, about something they actually think, is shrinking. AI-generated posts. AI-rewritten updates. AI agents responding to comments on behalf of people who aren’t really there. The mechanics of presence without the substance of it.

For SME owners trying to work out where to invest their limited time and energy, this creates a real problem. The conventional answer (be on every platform, post consistently, follow the algorithm) has never been less useful. Because the question now isn’t just which platforms work. It’s which platforms still reward the kind of presence that actually builds a business.

That’s why I wanted to share a series that one of our Regional Directors has just completed. Because it asks exactly the right question, and answers it with a level of honesty and commercial experience that I think is genuinely rare.

Seven platforms. One question. No waffle.

Vicky McKenna is Get Ahead’s Regional Director for Oxfordshire. Before joining us, she spent years as a Buying Director for major UK retailers and ran her own social media agency, with a specialism in Pinterest for business. She has used these platforms commercially. She knows what drives real results, and she knows when something simply isn’t worth a business owner’s time.

Over seven posts, Vicky worked through every major social platform and asked the same question each time: is it actually worth it for your business? Not a strategy guide. Not a list of tips. A straight answer, backed by real experience.

Here’s what she found.

PlatformWorth it?The verdict in brief
Meta – Facebook (& Instagram)For the right business, yesIf your best customers are over 35, don’t write it off. Forget the Page and focus on Groups
PinterestYes – for the right sectorA visual search engine with months-long content longevity. Misunderstood by most, underused by almost everyone
TikTokYes – if you’ll really show upThe flattest playing field in social media. But it asks more of you than any other platform
X / ThreadsProbably not – with exceptionsX has changed. Threads is still finding its feet. Most SMEs have better places to be
RedditPossibly – with patienceRewards genuine expertise like nowhere else. But there’s one rule you cannot break
LinkedInYes – unambiguouslyThe one platform where the answer needs no caveats. Show up consistently and genuinely
AI & Social MediaHelp and hindranceA tool for consistency, not a replacement for voice. The 20% that still sounds human is the 20% that gets read
The patternThe question behind all of itWhere are your customers, and what does it genuinely cost you to show up there? Apply that to every platform, including whatever comes next

Why this matters, and what it has to do with Get Ahead

The thread running through every one of Vicky’s verdicts is something I believe deeply about how businesses grow.

The platforms that reward you are the ones where you actually show up. Not a scheduled post, a generated caption or an agent monitoring your notifications while you’re somewhere else. You, with a genuine point of view, present and consistent, over time.

The platforms haven’t changed. The humans have left. And for growing businesses, that’s both the problem and the opportunity.

That’s a Vicky line, and it’s a sharp one. But it also captures something that sits at the heart of why we built Get Ahead the way we did.

Every business owner I’ve ever spoken to knows, somewhere, that they should be showing up more consistently: on LinkedIn, in their community, in the conversations their clients are already having. What stops them isn’t lack of understanding. It’s lack of time, lack of bandwidth, and the very real mental load that comes with running a growing business while trying to be visible in all the right places.

That’s the gap our Regional Directors and Virtual Experts fill. Not to replace the business owner’s voice, but to make it possible for them to show up consistently, even when life and work are demanding everything they have.

Vicky’s series is a brilliant example of what that looks like in practice. Seven posts, honest verdicts, real experience, and a body of content that will keep working for the business owners who read it long after it was written. Exactly the kind of presence, in other words, that she’s been advocating for all along.


Read the full series, or go straight to whichever platform has been on your mind.

Social Media – Is It Worth It?

Vicky McKenna’s seven-part series, Is It Worth It?, is an honest, platform-by-platform verdict on social media for growing businesses.

  1. Facebook
  2. Pinterest
  3. TikTok
  4. X – and Threads
  5. Reddit
  6. LinkedIn – and the Metaverse
  7. And Then There’s AI.


Bespoke Beats Off-the-Shelf: Why Fit Matters More Than Features

In the first two pieces in this series, I’ve explored why human connection still drives buying decisions – and how community builds the trust that makes those decisions easier.

The next step in that journey is something I see all the time:

Access to talent isn’t the problem. Fit is.

The Illusion of Choice

We’re living in an era of abundance. Platforms offer thousands of freelancers. Marketplaces promise instant access. Low costs are attractive.

On paper, it looks ideal. More choice. More flexibility. More control.

But for many business owners, especially those already stretched, that level of choice creates a new problem:

Decision fatigue.

Who’s actually right for this stage of my business?
What level of support do I really need?
How do I know if this person will “get” how we operate?

And when those questions aren’t easy to answer, hesitation creeps in again.

Growing Businesses Aren’t Generic

No two businesses are the same. Even if they operate in the same sector. Even if they’re similar in size.  Even if they face similar challenges.

Growth stage matters. Leadership style matters. Internal culture matters. Communication preference matters.

You can have two businesses that both “need marketing support”, yet require completely different solutions.

One needs strategic direction. One needs delivery capacity. One needs structure and reporting. One needs creativity and momentum.

That’s why off-the-shelf solutions often feel slightly uncomfortable.

They’re efficient. But they’re not personal.

Features Don’t Build Confidence. Fit Does

When businesses are investing in support, they’re not just buying capability.

They’re buying peace of mind.

They want to know:

  • This person understands our pace.
  • They communicate in a way that works for us.
  • They can integrate into our team.
  • They’ll represent our business well.

A long list of features on a profile doesn’t answer those questions. Fit does.

And fit isn’t something you filter by keyword. It’s something you uncover through conversation and relationships.

The Risk of Self-Serve Support

There’s nothing wrong with self-serve platforms. They work brilliantly in certain scenarios.

But when the stakes feel higher – when growth is on the line – many business owners don’t just want access.

They want guidance.

They want someone to say:

“This is what I’m seeing.”
“This is what I’d recommend.”
“This is the level of support that will make the biggest difference right now.”

Because choosing support isn’t just an operational decision.

It’s a strategic one.

And strategic decisions feel safer when someone experienced is helping you navigate them.

Where a Regional Director Makes the Difference

My role as a Regional Director at Get Ahead isn’t to hand over a list of options, it’s to interpret what a business actually needs.

Often the initial request sounds like:

“We need a VA.”

But after a conversation, it becomes clearer:

You don’t just need a VA.
You need someone with operational strength and process discipline.
Or someone commercially minded.
Or someone who can confidently liaise with senior stakeholders.
Or someone detail-focused who thrives in structured environments.

That nuance matters.

And that’s where bespoke support changes outcomes.

My role is to:

  • Listen carefully
  • Understand context
  • Identify the real pressure point
  • Match the right Virtual ‘Expert’ to that specific need
  • Stay involved to ensure the relationship works

That last part is important. Because fit isn’t a one-time decision.

It evolves as the business evolves.

Bespoke Doesn’t Mean Complicated

There’s sometimes an assumption that bespoke equals complex.

In reality, it should feel simpler.

When the right person is matched correctly:

  • Communication flows more easily.
  • Expectations are clearer.
  • Delivery is more consistent.
  • Confidence grows.

And when confidence grows, so does momentum.

That’s the commercial impact of getting the fit right.

Growth Is About Alignment

In Parts 1 and 2, we talked about trust and community.

This is where it becomes practical.

Trust reduces hesitation.
Community builds familiarity.
Bespoke matching ensures alignment.

Alignment is what sustains growth.

Because when support is truly aligned with where your business is right now, you move forward with less friction.

Less second-guessing.
Less rework.
Less “this isn’t quite right” feeling.

And that saves more than time.

It saves energy.

Looking Ahead

In the final part of this series, I’ll explore something I see time and time again:

Growth can feel heavy.

And often what business owners think they need is more pressure.

What they actually need is the right people in their corner.

Because scaling isn’t about doing everything yourself.

It’s about knowing who to bring in – and when.

If you’re considering bringing in support but feeling unsure what “right” looks like for your stage of business, let’s talk. kristy@getaheadva.com or book in a chat –  Calendly – Kristy Roff

Sometimes the most valuable outcome of a conversation isn’t a proposal.

It’s clarity.


About the Author

Learn more about Kristy here


In Your Corner – The Human Side of Growth

A four-part series exploring why human connection, community, and the right support still define how growing businesses succeed – even in an age of automation.

  1. In a World of Artificial Intelligence, Human Connection Still Wins the Buying Decision
  2. Community Is a Commercial Strategy (Not Just a Nice Idea)
  3. Bespoke Beats Off-the-Shelf: Why Fit Matters More Than Features
  4. You Don’t Need More Pressure – You Need the Right People in Your Corner

Community Is a Commercial Strategy (Not Just a Nice Idea)

In my last piece, I talked about how – even in a world increasingly shaped by AI – buying decisions are still human.

People don’t just buy information. They buy trust. They buy reassurance. They buy confidence.

And that trust rarely appears out of nowhere. It’s built in community.

Community Isn’t Soft – It’s Strategic

We often talk about community as though it’s a “nice extra.”

Networking meetings. Local forums. Industry events. Expos. Online groups.

But for small business owners especially, community is one of the most commercially powerful growth tools available.

Because business isn’t built in isolation.

It’s built in rooms. In conversations. In shared experience. In relationships.

Trust Is the Real Shortcut

In an automated world, buyers are overwhelmed with options.

AI can generate comparisons. Search engines surface thousands of providers. Websites promise everything.

But when someone has met you, spoken with you, or seen how you show up in a room, something changes.

You’re no longer just another option. You’re familiar. And familiarity builds trust faster than any algorithm.

Community accelerates that trust. And trust accelerates decisions.

Why Community Reduces Friction

Growth isn’t always about bigger marketing budgets or more automation.

Sometimes it’s about reducing friction in the decision-making process.

When someone already knows:

  • How you think
  • What you stand for
  • The way you support others
  • The quality of your conversations

The sales cycle shortens. Because the relationship has already started.

I see this regularly.

The initial conversation isn’t about proving credibility. It’s about exploring fit.

That’s a very different starting point.

Collaboration Over Competition

One of the things I value most in the local business community is the willingness to collaborate.

The right room shifts your perspective.

You realise:

  • You’re not the only one navigating growth challenges.
  • Others have solved problems you’re currently facing.
  • There’s space for more than one of us to succeed.

Community isn’t about handing over your clients. It’s about strengthening the ecosystem.

When businesses collaborate well:

  • Referrals increase
  • Solutions improve
  • Clients receive better outcomes
  • Everyone grows more sustainably

That’s not sentiment. That’s commercial logic.

The Confidence Factor

There’s also something less measurable but just as powerful. Confidence.

Running a business can feel exposed, particularly when you’re:

  • Enhancing your offering
  • Launching something new
  • Creating an additional revenue stream
  • Stepping outside your comfort zone

Those are the moments when hesitation creeps in. And hesitation, as we explored in Part 1, can stall growth.

Community reduces that hesitation. Having people in your corner – people who understand your world – changes how confidently you move forward. And confident decisions are usually better decisions.

Where My Role Fits

As a Regional Director at Get Ahead, I see my role as part of that wider ecosystem.

Yes, I match businesses with the right Virtual Experts.

But that process doesn’t start with a proposal. It starts with a relationship.

Often, by the time someone approaches me about support, we’ve already had conversations in community settings. We’ve discussed challenges informally. We’ve explored ideas. We’ve built trust.

So, when the time comes to talk commercially, it doesn’t feel like a sales process. It feels like the natural next step.

That’s the commercial power of community.

Community Is a Growth Multiplier

Community builds visibility. Visibility builds familiarity. Familiarity builds trust. Trust drives decisions.     
Decisions drive growth.

For business owners  especially, that chain reaction matters.

Community show up consistently
→
Visibility people know you exist
→
Familiarity people know how you think
→
Trust decisions feel safer
→
Growth the commercial result

You don’t need to be everywhere.

But you do need to be present. Consistently. Genuinely. With the intention to contribute, not just transact.

Because in an increasingly automated world, the businesses that thrive will be the ones that combine efficiency with connection.

Technology can scale your systems. Community scales your reputation. And reputation scales your business.

Looking Ahead

In the next part of this series, I’ll explore why bespoke support beats off-the-shelf solutions – and why fit matters more than features when you’re building something that lasts.

Because growth isn’t just about access to talent.

It’s about the right talent, at the right time, in the right way.

If you’re building your business and wondering whether you’re trying to do too much alone, let’s have a conversation. Sometimes the most strategic move isn’t another system. It’s the right connection.
kristy@getaheadva.com or book in a chat –  Calendly – Kristy Roff

About the author

In Your Corner – The Human Side of Growth

A four-part series exploring why human connection, community, and the right support still define how growing businesses succeed – even in an age of automation.

  1. In a World of Artificial Intelligence, Human Connection Still Wins the Buying Decision
  2. Community Is a Commercial Strategy (Not Just a Nice Idea)
  3. Bespoke Beats Off-the-Shelf: Why Fit Matters More Than Features
  4. You Don’t Need More Pressure – You Need the Right People in Your Corner

The Power of Networking in Business

When people talk about networking, the image that often comes to mind is a busy room full of people exchanging business cards and delivering rehearsed elevator pitches.

But in my experience, real networking is something quite different.

It’s not about selling. It’s about connecting.

And over the years, networking has been one of the most powerful forces behind the growth of Get Ahead.

Networking is about relationships, not transactions

When I started Get Ahead, I quickly realised that building a business isn’t something you do alone. Every entrepreneur needs a network of people around them; people who offer advice, share opportunities, introduce contacts, and provide support when challenges arise.

Some of the most valuable relationships I’ve built started with a simple conversation at a networking event.

Not a pitch. Not a sales conversation. Just two people talking about their businesses and how they might help each other.

Those relationships have often turned into collaborations, referrals, partnerships and friendships that last for years.

The hidden value of being visible

One of the biggest benefits of networking is simply being present.

People work with people they know, like and trust. That trust rarely comes from a single interaction. It builds gradually as people see you showing up, contributing and supporting others in the business community.

Networking helps create that visibility.

Whether it’s attending events, hosting roundtables, supporting local business groups or introducing others within your network. Every interaction strengthens your reputation.

The power of community

Something I’ve always loved about the SME community is how collaborative it can be. Business owners understand the ups and downs of running a company, and there’s a real willingness to support each other.

At Get Ahead we see this every day. Many of our client relationships and regional partnerships have grown through local business networks and community events.

When businesses support each other, everyone benefits.

A collage of  a recent LinkedIn Local meeting in Guildford

Networking is about giving first

The most effective networkers are rarely the ones trying to sell the hardest. Instead, they are the people who focus on helping others.

Making introductions. Sharing ideas. Offering advice. Connecting people who might benefit from meeting.

Over time, that generosity has a way of coming back around.

Building stronger businesses together

For me, networking has never been a “marketing tactic”. It’s simply part of how business should work.

Businesses grow faster when people collaborate.
Communities are stronger when businesses support each other.
And opportunities appear when we take the time to build genuine relationships.

At Get Ahead, that philosophy runs right through our organisation. Our Regional Directors are deeply connected within their local business communities across the UK, building relationships that help businesses access the support they need to grow.

Because when strong networks come together, great things happen.

Why not experience it for yourself?

Get Connected - Get Ahead in association with Metro Bank

Across our regions, we host and support a range of networking events, including Get Connected, which we frequently host in partnership with Metro Bank, as well as a growing number of LinkedIn Local gatherings. These events create opportunities for business owners and professionals to share ideas, build relationships and support each other’s growth.

If you’re curious, or even a little sceptical, about the impact networking can have, the best way to understand it is simply to experience what that community feels like in practice.

Take a look at our event calendar to find a meeting near you. You’ll always find a warm welcome and a room full of people who understand the highs and lows of running a business.

Because in the end, businesses – and all of us personally – grow through relationships.