In previous pieces I have written about planning, accountability, and the gap between delivering a project and realising its benefits. In this one I want to step back and look at something that sits beneath all of those: the cost of not deciding, and the art of knowing which decisions actually matter.
No decision is a decision
One of the things I learned early in my career, managing complex supply chain programmes, is that a stalled project is never neutral. It always has a cost. The question is only whether that cost is visible.
When a project drifts, when scope discussions go unresolved, when the next step waits for a conversation that keeps being postponed, the business is not standing still. It is continuing to operate without the improvement the project was designed to deliver. Every week of delay is a week without the benefit.
That is the opportunity cost of an unfinished project. It is real, it compounds, and it is almost never quantified.
The morale cost is equally real
There is another cost that is harder to measure but just as damaging: what a stalled project does to the people involved in it.
I have seen this in my own career, and I see it regularly with growing businesses. A team that commits energy and effort to a change programme, and then watches it drift and stall, does not simply shrug and move on. They become more cautious. They are less willing to invest in the next project. The instinct that change is possible and worth attempting gets quietly eroded.
And the business owner or leader who sponsored the project carries the additional weight of a commitment not delivered. That weight accumulates across multiple stalled projects, and it is one of the most consistent sources of leadership fatigue in growing businesses.
Morale is not soft. In a smaller business, where the energy and belief of a small group of people is often the primary competitive advantage, morale is a genuinely strategic resource. Wasting it on projects that drift is a cost that deserves to be taken seriously.
Sometimes you have to keep moving
All of this points to a principle that is counterintuitive for many business owners: sometimes the worst option is to wait for more information or a better moment.
Projects stall most often not because the decisions are genuinely impossible, but because the people involved are not comfortable making them without certainty they will never have. They wait for the risk to reduce, for alignment to emerge naturally, for someone else to take the first step.
Meanwhile the cost of not deciding keeps accumulating.
There is a version of caution that is wisdom: taking the time to understand what you are deciding and what the consequences are. And there is a version of caution that is avoidance, dressed up as diligence. The skill is telling the difference, which is easier when you have an experienced outside perspective and harder when you are close to the project and carrying the pressure of it.
Not all decisions are equal
The other side of this is equally important: not every decision in a project is a decision that needs to be agonised over.
In my experience, most projects have a small number of genuinely critical decisions, the ones where the choice of direction will have a lasting, material impact on the outcome. And a much larger number of decisions that feel significant in the moment, generate extended discussion, and ultimately make very little difference to the result.
The skill of good project leadership, and of experienced external support, is distinguishing between the two. Knowing when to push for a decision because the cost of delay is real, and knowing when to make a pragmatic call and move on because the decision is less important than the momentum it is consuming.
Spending hours debating a choice that turns out to be marginal is itself a cost. The time and energy that goes into low-stakes decisions is time and energy that is not available for the decisions that genuinely matter.
The discipline of moving
What this adds up to is a case for a particular kind of project discipline: the discipline of keeping things moving, even when not everything is resolved.
That does not mean ignoring risk or making reckless decisions. It means having a clear sense of which risks are worth managing carefully and which ones are overstated. It means being willing to make a good enough decision now rather than waiting for a perfect one that may never arrive. And it means having someone in the project whose job includes recognising when delay is becoming more costly than the thing being delayed over.
In growing businesses, that discipline is hard to maintain from the inside. Everyone is close to the work. Everyone has a stake in the decisions. And the pressure of the day-to-day makes it easy to let project decisions wait for a better moment.
That better moment rarely comes on its own.
Making the cost visible
One of the most useful things an outside perspective brings to a stalled project is simply making the cost of the stall visible.
Not as a criticism, but as a practical question: what is this delay actually costing us? What would we have, if we had decided this three months ago? What will we not have, if we continue to wait?
When those questions get asked directly, the case for moving tends to become clearer. The risk of a decision that turns out to be slightly wrong usually looks smaller than the cost of not deciding at all.
The projects I have seen recover from difficult stalls almost always share a common turning point: a moment when someone named the cost of waiting, and the team chose to move.
If you have a project that has lost momentum, or a decision that has been sitting unresolved for longer than it should, I am always happy to think it through with you. Sometimes an outside perspective is all it takes to see a clear way forward.
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Making Change Work – A series discussing project management in growing businesses:
- Why SME Projects Stall – and the Fix
- The urge to do: why projects in growing businesses skip the step that matters most
- Who’s actually responsible? Project accountability
- The most expensive part of a project is the bit nobody plans for
- The hidden cost of the project that never quite moves